The right way to be merry…
We must play. But our merriment must be that kind (and it is, in fact, the merriest kind) which exists between people who have, from the outset, taken each other seriously—no flippancy, no superiority, no presumption.1 — C.S. Lewis
1Lewis, C. S. (2001). The weight of glory: And other addresses. New York: HarperCollins. Page 46.